Hi everyone,
This is the first blog post of my blog Baby and 40.
I actually started this blog back in 2012 when I turn 40 years old and I became pregnant...I just never got around to writing.
I was a very excited and I went through a very interesting journey into 2013 and had my baby.
Now we are in 2014 and I just found out today, March 11th 2014, that I am now pregnant with my second child from my current relationship with my partner Tym.
We have been together several years and we are very happy.
We also have our regular worries, too, because we are older parents. We are 10 years apart. He is in his early 50's and I am in my early forties and his concerns are my concerns, they pretty much matchup but at the same time we're just very excited because we are people that love our family and we definitely love our children. We just love life and being together.
So who do you tell first? Well, I'm telling you about my new baby-on-the-way! Im excited! Im so excited I could float on air!... and to be honest you probably would want to stick to some one that, you know, would be very positive with you-- very comforting to you and very loving toward you because a lot of people, family or friends, don't see being pregnant as a positive thing.
I know that I will wait to tell some and probably not say a word to others. Im doing that to keep my stress level down and to keep my life positive. I dont want the negativity.
There's some negative connotations and stereotypes that go along with being pregnant. Whether are you are married or not, whether you were older are young and it can cultural thing, as well.
Some cultures promote large families more than others.
In my life, Tym and I, we are not new at this but every experience of having a child in our lives is new and we are very happy about this one, too.
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